J is for Joygasm, Jeeping & Jousting: Sex Terms That Spark Curiosity
Delving back into the alphabet, we arrive at one of my favourite letters — good old “J”.
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Let’s get back to our Sex Term Alphabet, focusing on the letter J.
Sex Terms That Start With J
Jeeping: Getting Down in the Backseat
Jeeping refers to engaging in sex (or sex acts) in the backseat of a car — yes, particularly in a Jeep, but we won’t judge if you drive a Honda. Whether it’s about thrill, nostalgia, or just a lack of private space, Jeeping harkens back to many people’s teenage exploration days. Just make sure you’re parked safely and respecting consent, privacy, and local laws.
Jerkin’ the Gherkin: Solo Play, Slang Edition
A cheeky phrase for penis-focused masturbation. While slang may vary by region (and generation), it’s always worth destigmatizing solo sex — because masturbation can be a healthy, empowering part of your sexual self-care. Looking for something to elevate your solo time? The We-Vibe Pivot can enhance sensation during partnered or solo pleasure.
Jousting: Not Just for Knights
Jousting is a slang term often used to describe double penetration — when two objects (or body parts) enter a single orifice. For some, this might involve two fingers; for others, it might include a toy and a partner. As with all play that involves multiple points of penetration, communication, prep, and consent are key. A versatile tool like the We-Vibe Nova 2, with dual stimulation, may be a gentle starting point if you’re looking to explore new forms of intensity.
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Joydogging: Consent Matters
Historically used to describe people having sex in stolen vehicles (yes, really), the term is outdated and problematic — and we don’t encourage or romanticize criminal activity or non-consensual public sex.
If you’re looking to spice things up with voyeurism or exhibitionism, start with a conversation about comfort zones and boundaries, and check out ethical alternatives like sex clubs or lifestyle travel destinations like Desire Resorts and Cruises.
You can read, listen and learn more about erotic holiday travel in these posts:
- A Newbie’s First Experience at Desire Resorts
- Desire Resorts: Adults-Only, Clothing-Optional Resort FAQ
Joygasm: Orgasmic Bliss From Unexpected Places
A joygasm is a surge of pleasure (sexual or otherwise) that can result from anything from a deep belly laugh to a beautiful bite of chocolate cake — or a particularly satisfying stretch. It’s a reminder that orgasmic pleasure isn’t confined to the genitals. Want to explore full-body pleasure? The We-Vibe Melt is a perfect starting point for slow, sensual clitoral stimulation.
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