Our brilliant friend, Dr. Ruthie (Ruth Neustifter PhD) explores why women enjoy anal sex
too! Watch the video below as she explains the anatomy of the anus, vagina and G-Spot.
Check out Dr. Ruthie’s book, The Nice Girl’s Guide to Talking Dirty.
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TL;DR – Why do Women like Anal Sex?
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Anal pleasure is real. The anus has dense nerve endings and can provide intense sensations, especially when paired with communication, relaxation, and patience.
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Indirect stimulation of the vaginal wall and G-spot through anal penetration can enhance arousal for some people.
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Prep matters. Comfort comes with preparation: use lube (lots of it), take your time, and communicate openly. Condoms help reduce risk of infection.
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Start small with toys. Beginner-friendly options like the We-Vibe Ditto or We-Vibe Vector can ease exploration and enhance pleasure.
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Consent is everything. Talk about boundaries, desires, and preferences before you begin. No one should feel pressured or unsure.
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Want more? Check out: 9 Anal Pleasure Techniques and All About Anal for tips on finger, tongue, and toy play.
Understanding the Pleasure of Anal Sex for Women
Anal sex is often shrouded in mystery and misconceptions, particularly regarding women’s experiences. It’s essential to approach this topic with an open mind and a commitment to understanding the nuances of pleasure.
The Anatomy of Pleasure
The anus is rich in nerve endings, making it a sensitive area for many individuals. When approached with care, communication, and consent, anal stimulation can be a source of significant pleasure. For some women, anal penetration can indirectly stimulate the vaginal wall and the G-spot, enhancing the overall experience.
Preparation is Key
Engaging in anal sex requires preparation to ensure comfort and safety. This includes relaxation, ample lubrication, and open communication with your partner. Using protection, such as condoms, is also crucial to reduce the risk of infections.
Exploring with Toys
Incorporating toys can be an excellent way to explore anal pleasure. For instance, the We-Vibe Ditto is designed for comfortable and pleasurable anal play. Similarly, the We-Vibe Vector offers targeted stimulation for those looking to explore further.
We-Vibe Vector
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Adjustable Fit:Â Bends to your body for targeted prostate play with deep vibes.
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App + Remote Control:Â Hands-free or partner-controlled fun.
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Dr. Jess says: Vector makes prostate pleasure easy, even if you’re just getting started.
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Communication and Consent
As with all sexual activities, communication and consent are paramount. Discuss boundaries, desires, and concerns with your partner to ensure a mutually satisfying experience. Remember, no one should feel pressured to engage in any activity they’re uncomfortable with.
Further Reading and Resources
For more insights into anal pleasure and techniques, consider reading our blog posts:
- 9 Anal Pleasure Techniques for Your Fingers & Tongue – Fun tips and tricks
- All About Anal – comprehensive information for those interested in exploring this aspect of their sexuality.
Stay curious, stay safe, and prioritize open communication with your partner.
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