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And thatβs why youβre here: to build happier relationships —
from the boardroom to the bedroom.
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Iβm Jess OβReilly and Iβm a sexologist. Born in Canada, Iβm Chinese-Jamaican on my momβs side and Irish on my dadβs. I have a PhD in human sexuality with a focus on teacher training in sexual health & relationship education. School-based education is my passion, so if youβre a teacher, parent or student in a public school, reach out, as Iβd love to come volunteer in your classroom!
These days, I travel around the world — from Switzerland and India to London and LA to work with couples who want to invest in their relationships just as they invest in every other area of their lives — from health to wealth. And my workshops donβt just focus on sex, but intersect with all things related to communication, commitment, pleasure, joy, love and fulfilment.
At Happier Couples, we want to change the world — one relationship at a time — so we also write books, contribute to articles and share insights on TV with the goal of providing an evidence-based, practical and fun approach to sex and relationships.
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Canβt wait to read, learn and relish in this brilliance: Black Public Joy by Jay Pitter is out this weekβ an uplifting narrative amid the strain of civic systems & public spaces. Toronto Life calls it an βinstruction manual for joy.β The book frames public joy as civic, cultural and spatial infrastructure. Will link in stories.
Happy new year! Big thanks to @benzinabcn for ringing us into 2026 with the best food, company and our first lucky grape ritual! πππΌOur relationship retreats for leaders/founders are already underway and if I see you on the road, be forewarned that I reserve the right to say HNY until Feb 14th. βοΈππ«
Happy happy π¦ day, Mom! π₯°ππ°π§π₯° Looking forward to your three-quarter-century celebration this weekend.π₯
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