Does Size Matter?
I don’t have a penis and I’ve never wanted one. As a woman, I’m subject to impossible pressures with regard to my physical makeup, but I can’t even begin to fathom the anxieties associated with penis size. While it may not factor heavily along the path to enlightenment and it doesn’t seem to matter to […]
The Female Orgasm
Sex is a process. It’s a beautiful, fun and wonderfully messy process that involves several stages of arousal and response. Orgasm (alongside desire, excitement, plateau and resolution) is just one stage of sexual response, but it tends to get the most attention. Though orgasms can be great (sometimes better than great), they aren’t always earth-shattering […]
Same-Sex Marriage
This is a short post, but an important one. The California Supreme Court upheld a ban on same-sex marriage earlier today as an affront on human rights. If you’re interested in equality, sexual diversity and/or universal rights, please check out www.equalitymatters.org The denial of marriage to same-sex couples has far reaching practical impacts including limitations […]
Sex Ed. Please!
Could you coach football without ever having seen a game? Each time I host a workshop that addresses the expansion of sexual repertoire, I’m reminded of the fact that very few of us have had the opportunity to learn about sex through the valuable lens of observation. Sure. Many of us have glanced at (and […]
The Female Orgasm: What’s Taking So Long?
This post contains explicit material and is intended for those over the age of 18. Please visit www.sexetc.org if you are not yet 18. I hear about this concern from both men and women: “It takes her forever to come!” A well-intentioned male client recently complained to me that despite forty or fifty minutes of […]
