Do Soulmates Exist & How Do I Find One?

Every other Friday, I join Gill Deacon on CBC’s Here and Now for our new column, Love In Uncertain Times. Listen via the link at the bottom of this page and check out the text summary below. 1. You say that looking for a soulmate is unrealistic. What do you mean? From a mathematical standpoint, […]
Anal Play: Positions, Prep & Pleasure!

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Be sure to check out our affiliate links and use our discount code DRJESSVIP at checkout to save when shopping. We appreciate your support! TL;DR: Why Anal Play Deserves More Attention Anal sex isn’t about “taking it like a champ”, it’s about care, communication, and understanding your (very sophisticated) butt anatomy. Proper prep = more […]
When Your Partner Refuses To Go To Therapy (And other viewer Qs)

How do you talk to that friend who’s breaking COVID rules? What do you do if your partner refuses to go to couples’ counselling? Jess dives into these topics on Global TV’s The Morning Show. Check out her notes and video interview below! How to deal with friends who don’t agree on safety protocols as […]
Tips For Successful Online Dating

Have you ever wondered how you could improve your presence in the online dating scene? Have you thought about what does and doesn’t work? Jess joins Carolyn and Jeff on Global TV’s The Morning Show as she gives us better online dating tips. Check out her notes and the video interview below. 1. How should […]
Kinky Sex, Race & Social Justice

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Dr. Ali Mushtaq joins us to share his journey from a conservative upbringing to leather title holder and discusses how BDSM education can be more inclusive and justice-oriented. Some of the questions he covers includes: When and why is it important to talk about race in BDSM? How can we bring anti-oppression frameworks to kinky […]