Romance Scams & How To Date Safely

Have you encountered scammers while dating online or in person? We received this query from a loyal listener: “I started dating after divorce (I was married way too young at 19 years old, I’m 28 now), and I’m devastated after being scammed. He took over 20K from me, which I know is not as bad […]

Q&A Quickie: Sexual Desire & Painful Sex

How does your relationship affect desire and libido? How do you rekindle connection and desire after breaking up and then reuniting? How do you rebuild trust when you get back together? In this episode, we respond to a listener question: her partner left her and then returned, and now she’s dealing with low libido and […]

How to Be An Ally & Accomplice

    What’s the difference between an ally & an accomplice? How do health risks intersect with sexual orientation? What can we do to support those who are at greater risk? Why are discussions of interracial and mixed orientation relationships essential to DEI + justice work? Dr. Antony Chum of York University joins Jess and […]

How to Explore Kinks & Fetishes

Why do we develop fetishes and kinks like heirophilia and small penis humiliation? How do you tell a partner about a specific desire, fantasy or kink? What are the costs of not opening up about a kink or fetish? If you’re into something and they’re not, how can you bridge the gap? Carli DeVille, the ultimate guide to […]

Q&A Quickie: Passing Gas, Snooping & Ex-Lovers

When is it okay to pass gas in front of a new partner? Is it ever okay to snoop in their messages? Should you ask about their past? When should you introduce kids to a new partner? We don’t have their answers, but we share our imperfect thoughts on your “when is it okay to…?” […]

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