How to Dirty Talk Without Feeling Embarrassed
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In my last post, we covered the basics of dirty talk and they are well worth reviewing if you missed them. As promised, I’ve listed some specific dirty talk lines you can use to woo, taunt, tease or tantalize your sweetie without feeling embarrassed or tongue-tied.
Romantic & Sweet Dirty Talk
Words that affirm connection, not just arousal:
- You’re everything I’ve ever dreamed of.
- I can’t imagine making love to anyone else.
- I want you and only you.
- I never want another body beside mine.
Alluring & Teasing Dirty Talk
A little anticipation can go a long way:
- I know you want what’s under this shirt.
- Want to come play with me?
- I’ll do whatever you tell me to do.
- You have no idea what I’m about to do to you.
Aggressive Dirty Talk
For when you want to play with control and power (consensually, of course):
- I’m going to hold you down and make you come – Click here for The Secret to Simultaneous Orgasms.
- Can you handle what I’m about to do?
Responsive Dirty Talk
Perfect if you’re feeling unsure or just want to create space for shared exploration:
- Tell me how you like it.
- What can I do for you?
- I’m just going to lay back and let you work me over.
Ego-Stroking Dirty Talk
Affirm your partner and fan the flames:
- You’re the best I’ve ever had.
- You make me so wet/hard/excited.
- Tell me how sexy I am.
- You taste like honey.
Demanding & Instructive Dirty Talk
If you’re ready to take the lead:
- Give it to me how I like it.
- Tell me what you’re going to do to me.
- Put your hands on my hips and bend me over. I want to moan your name.
Descriptive Dirty Talk
Paint a picture with your words:
- I’m going to wrap my lips around your big hard….
- I’m touching myself.
- I’m coming!
A Little Naughty Dirty Talk
Bring a little kink to the conversation:
- I want to taste your hot come.
- I thought about you last night when I was touching myself.
- Tie me down and have your way with me.
Fantastical Dirty Talk
Let your imagination stretch beyond monogamy and into fantasy:
- I saw the waitress checking you out. I bet she wanted to come home with us.
- I’d love to watch her dance for you.
- I bet you’d get hard watching me with someone else.
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And if a threesome fantasy has ever crossed your mind, you might find this post useful: How to Prep for a Threesome.
Thank you again for reading. And remember: it’s absolutely okay to talk with your mouth full.
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