Last longer, reduce performance pressure & prolong PLEASURE with @popstarlabs specially formulated Delay Spray. It’s easy to use, absorbs quickly and won’t transfer to your partner, so you can relax, indulge and enjoy the ride. There’s a reason they offer a money-back guarantee. Link & discount code in bio.

Mismatched desire & how to start the conversation about frequency.

🎥Throwback: random acts of kindness can reduce social anxiety. Random* not required.

CEF: emotions required to (possibly) get in the mood. EEF: emotions that intensify excitement & pleasure. Oftentimes CEFs are rooted in safety & validation while EEFs are tied to risk & subversion (especially related to identity-based norms). We expand on this short CityLine segment in the podcast. Link in bio.

The emotional-erotic connection can outweigh and enhance the physical. And when we start with feelings, it can reduce pressure and self-consciousness when discussing more intense and taboo topics. ✨ This is a throwback clip from 2021 with the sparkly @thetracymoore. And Brandon & I delve deeper into this theory & its application on the podcast. 🎤 Link in bio!