Ruined Orgasms: Techniques, Psychology & Benefits
Jess recently contributed to an interview on ruined orgasms. Check out the Q&A below. What is a ruined orgasm? A ruined orgasm generally refers to an orgasm that is not particularly pleasurable. It often (but not always) is a part of D/s play in which the Dominant may stop all stimulation right before orgasm. For […]
How to Intensify Orgasms: 5 Pathways to Pleasure
You don’t have to have bigger, better ohhs, but if you want to explore more intense pleasure, here are five simple pathways to consider. 1. Play with running water. The sensation of flowing water — from the texture and temperature to the rhythm and pressure of its movement — can help you to get out of […]
4 Types of Couples — Which One Are You?
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Do opposites attract? Are you really attracted to funny people or do you find attractive people funnier? And which type of dating couple are you? Researchers suggest that there are four types of dating couples and your type can influence whether the relationship lasts. Jess and Brandon explore these research topics in their last episode […]
Sex, Gender & Intimacy: People Collide with Isle McElroy
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Isle McElroy joins Jess and Brandon to talk about intimacy, vulnerability and sex — on paper and in the flesh. An award-winning non-binary author based in New York, McElroy’s latest novel People Collide is a gender-bending, body-switching story exploring marriage, identity, and sex, which delves into questions about the nature of true partnership. Isle shares personal […]
Managing Burnout In Relationships: Conservation of Resources Theory
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What are the signs of burnout, and how do they – show up in relationships? How might the Conservation of Resources theory apply to personal relationships? And how can we use the Conservation of Resource lens to manage burnout and improve relationships? Jess & Brandon discuss these topics and more while exploring specific strategies for […]
